page 1. You can do it. I've done it at least six times, with a seventh on the brink.
page 1. I don't look like Brad Pitt. I'm not tall, rich, or famous.
page 2. You don't need to be God's gift to womankind to seek something as extraordinary as another person altering their body for you. She will get to the point where doing it for you is also doing it for her own satisfactin.
page 3. Let's dismiss the situation where a woman is
just waiting and hoping that some charming fellow will
happen along and pay for her breast augmentation. That is not what this is about. It happens, yes, but it has nothing to do with you and
chances are she wouldn't stick around for you to enjoy
the fruits of your contribution.
page 4. It's important that you do not approach this as
an exercise in attacking her self-esteem.
page 4. Women are extremely competitive in the sexual
arena, much more so than men. You can capitalize on that.
page 5. If you just recently met the woman, and she's bobbing around in the big sea of women with no attraction obvious yet, you can "sow the seeds" early. Since she has no stake in you, you can be totally honest without it being brutally honest.
page 5. The Initiating Conversation
The timing and setting are important. It is better if she gives
you an opening, or circumstances give you an opening.
page 5. Opening: What Did Your Ex Look Like?
Another opening would be if she asks what your previous girlfriend(s) looked like. With this, you're ahead of the game!
page 6. When she asks if they were fake, you answer, "Totally fake!" and she will probably ask if you liked that, perhaps hinting that it would be more normal to throw up at the idea of silicone. An answer that will provoke questions for her would be: (you can guess, or you can order the Manual! )
page 7. Opening: Voyeurism in Public
A tricky one is you're at the beach, and on the towel next to you and your girlfriend are two young women with large implants. They look fantastic. Your girlfriend is stressed about it. Let's assume she brings it up. She might be defensive, "Oh my god, those look so fake." Which means she is looking for a confirmation from you that you are hostile to breast augmentation.
page 8. And if she starts out by saying, "Why do women get such large boobs? Do men really like that?" you are on thin ice. I think you have to resign yourself to an afternoon of sulking, but you might salvage it with this: "There's a reason women go that big; there are definitely men who are enthralled with it."
Now here it comes: "Well what is YOUR reaction?"
At this challenge, you either lie, or you take hold of her, look her right in the eyes, kiss her, and say, (you can guess, or you can order the Manual! )
page 10. You're taking a risk. So have fun with it. Always include that incentive: (you can guess, or you can order the Manual! )
page 10. This approach could be called: "The Key to
Winning Me Over Is…" and it would go something
like this. If she is slightly frustrated in capturing your
heart, she may give you openers like, "I just don't
understand what you want." Or "What are you after?"
or "I can't tell if you're really attracted to me."
page 11. Don't blurt anything out here. Instead, tell her,
(you know: Guess, or Order ! )
page 12. It's strange how rarely people ask ______________of one another - until you stop and consider how extremely selfish most romances are. At least in the US, fulfilling your partner is not even on the list of priorities. Americans are selfish. A man who isn't will stand out.
page 14. Go quickly for humor if she seems shocked at you putting the subject of breast augmentation out on the table. If she gets upset or defensive, so be it. You can try to pull out of that tailspin with passion: grab her, kiss her, surprise her and give her vivid associations of pleasure to go along with the idea of bigger breasts.
Women in general respond well to a man opening the door to a new existence, a new dimension of life, and you will have just done that. And if she doesn't like the idea, she knows you do, and over time that could settle in. At all times, when this topic of breast augmentation comes up, paint a picture of (you know: Guess, or Order ! )
page 15. The Self Confident Woman versus The Woman Who Lacks Confidence
You might think it would be easier to convince a girlfriend or wife who lacks confidence to compensate by enlarging her breasts.
Not so. The self-confident wife or girlfriend is much more likely to receive the suggestion of breast augmentation as (you know: Guess, or Order ! )
page 16. Now, let's address the situation of a woman who already has breast implants, in the middle to medium-large range, say 475cc to 600cc. This would translate, for most women, into D and DD cups. From what I've seen, women in this size range are more likely to go into the unusually big sizes, 750cc and up, if they have a (you know: Guess, or Order ! )
I'm sure there are cases of manipulating women into getting huge breasts by making them feel it's the only way they can keep you interested. I'll just say that if a woman goes up to DDD or larger, primarily because she's insecure and you pressured her, that you are likely to have a bad reaction from her later.
...You probably won't have much trouble getting her to add a bit of size, but the path to much bigger breasts requires a more wholistic approach...
page 20. Prepping the Pipeline
Single people often have a 'pipeline' of potential mates that they cultivate opportunistically, waiting to see what might develop with time, if a spark will occur. If you have my problem, a sexual red light against small breasts, you need to filter your pipeline for receptiveness to breast augmentation. If you're appalled to read that, don't worry; women do it to men constantly, testing them for income potential, gift giving knowledge, status, and so on. It works both ways. We're not into political correctness here, just reality.
I'll give you a couple of examples from today. A woman at the gym who knows my ex-wife and my current girlfriend started speaking with me before an exercise class. She asked quite a few questions about both my ex and my soon to be ex-girlfriend. Then she commented, "Your girlfriend is so…tiny." I just smiled. I knew she was intrigued with the contrast between my girlfriend's 105-pound body and her DD breasts.
She went on, "I guess you really have a type, don't you?"
And - this is important to get her to say it out loud - I asked, "And what type do you think that is?"
She rolled her eyes and said, "Skinny with big boobs. I mean look, your girlfriend is tiny with huge boobs, and your ex-wife is skinny with big boobs."
Very good - she is asking questions, she is identifying and confirming my preferences, she is not afraid to articulate them. I am not looking for anyone new, but if it were you in my shoes, and you were looking for a new girlfriend, all of this conversation plays right into your plans. Whether she has an interest in me, or later acts as a matchmaker with one of her friends, doesn't matter. In either case, she knows what I want and that can only help.
These openings come up constantly. By taking advantage of them, immediately, in an affirming way, you are way ahead of the game, should the women in your pipeline ever make it clear that you are at the head of their pipeline.
If you are single-mindedly dedicated to dating only women who are candidates for breast enlargement, here is a priority ordering list. At the top is the type of woman most likely to go for it, at the bottom are the unlikely categories. (you know: Guess, or Order ! )
page 32. How Big do You Want Me to Go?
Aha. I am guessing that if you have come this far, you are not thinking B cup. Unless your partner has experience with breast implants already, there's no reason to get specific about sizes until right before going to the consult with her.
If she asks you in the initial conversation, it's best to keep your response to romantic and passionate terms: "I'm imaging you very curvaceous, with very full breasts, so the change when you wear tight clothes is noticeable."
page 37. With my girlfriend who started as an A or small B, I simply told her, "Surprise me." She had insisted on seeing pictures of Playboy centerfolds that turned me on, so she had a good idea where my fantasies tended toward. I greatly enjoyed not knowing, and I was blown away by the result. On her, in 1994, 420ccs that created a small D cup were amazing. I was on cloud nine.
Today, it's a different era, and I would hope to start at 550cc. Given that I'm now in an older age group, the women I date are almost always moms who have finished having children. They've experienced large breasts which of course shrank after weaning their children, and that often means their skin can immediately accommodate 600cc, 700cc or even larger. It's also true that many younger women who used the pill had experienced their breasts inflating, then shrinking and sagging after the hormones' effect wore off. Many of these women could start at 700cc or more.
One woman volunteered the information, before any talk of bodies or surgery, that while breastfeeding, "I had a 42" bust and my breasts were DD size." All I needed to do was bring up that I was fascinated with that image of her, and she asked, "Would you like me that way?"
Within days she was at the surgeon and talking about 600cc saline implants that would later be overfilled to about 720cc. Enough already - Order the Manual !